If you accept reincarnation and a sperm is living consciousness..

Question……

What are the 100 million or so other sperm doing , and why are they so situated , because as a man impregnates a woman, only one of them is destined to  enter into the female egg , although sometimes twins or triplets.  The  same question also applies to any male of any species , although the number of sperms differ, and in some species many offspring can be born to one mother .

The other sperm die off and have to again enter into the material energies via another sperm and seek another opportunity.

There is a chemical signal sent by the female eggs that attract a specific sperm , karmic synchronicities, and destinations are highly complex,  but nothing happens by chance , rather by prescription and design. Life is a struggle from start to finish in the material energies. This is clearly described in the Vedas.
See the sciences

“Follicular fluid from one female was better at attracting sperm from one male, while follicular fluid from another female was better at attracting sperm from a different male,” said Professor Fitzpatrick.

“This shows that interactions between human eggs and sperm depend on the specific identity of the women and men involved.”

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The idea that eggs are choosing sperm is really novel in human fertility
Professor Daniel Brison.

Srila AC Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada has explained everything is happening by the supreme desire of Krishna,  this consciousness is Krishna consciousness.

http://www.thevedicspectator.com

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