Bring out what is there

Kevin Pietersen the next England cricket coach wants to challenge each individual player to make themselves the best version of themselves,  in spiritual life , Sri Guru , is like a  coach , who constantly drills persons into looking at their absolute potentials , and  Sri Guru puts the techniques and practices together within  persons,  inflicting strict disciplines that enable them to discover what is already there .
If it works on the cricket field  it also  works in spiritual life , find your self a good coach /Guru and success is guaranteed.

In the Gauḍīya Vaiṣṇava tradition, Śrīla Bhaktivinoda Ṭhākura teaches that sādhana-bhakti (regulated spiritual practice) is not a self-invented process, but a sacred science administered directly by Śrī Guru (the spiritual master).

The term “inflicted” in this theological context highlights that the discipline, rules, and regulations (niyamas) given by the guru are an essential, external pressure required to break the conditioning of the material mind and ego. Without this expert guidance, the conditioned soul (jīva) cannot independently extract itself from illusion (māyā).


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