It may be common for some people who were psychologically abused or bullied as children or young adults to overly compensate by using “on line sites ” and overly establish themselves , and overly protect themselves, because of previous unhealthy experiences, and they may inadvertently become bullies by employing similar tactics on others , thinking that this is protecting themselves, they may be wrongley seeing their original bully or mentally unhealthy person in everyone, so a balance and acceptance needs to occur , move on from those that caused harm and to degrees accept it as an unfortunate and somehow destined , but I will let it go and not spend my life as a victim but live life anew.
But we must remember one who does wrong or suffers wrong is wrong, so we must also recognise wrong and correctly deal with it .

Actually, everyone to one degree or another has some reasons why they feel insecure in this world,  its in one sense an unnatural place to be , we have spent millions of lives trailing the universe picking up all kinds of baggage.  So whether a heavy load or lighter load , when it comes to sat cit ananda spiritual consciousness and purity,  all baggage has to be left behind . Sri Caitanya Mahāprabhu has revealed the easy process,  but still its made hard , if we make it hard , Sri Guru and his merciful glance is required and his words meditated upon , Sri Guru comes in many forms , Sadhu sanga and Sastra sanga.

Vedic cultures are all about protecting people.
You don’t put a psychological bully in charge of a boys school
You don’t put a sex pest in charge of a girls school.
You don’t call out a plumber and ask him to carry out brain surgery.

Vedic cultures help people who have problems but also make sure those problems are not placed in others .
Purity and common sense go hand in hand .
Ps. .. Don’t let global conglomerates and ruthless businessmen anywhere near forming political strategies that set  goals for society to follow , although economic development is important , its needs oversites by the Sattvic intelligentsia , business leaders do not have the thoughts of others and the complex  needs of everyone and every being .…..the big big mistake of Western cultures is handing them the keys to the world.

More on this soon
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