Who is right …are we  one or different or …..both ?

The ancient wisdom of the Vedas teaches that the living beings are simultaneously one and different from Divinity. It also teaches that the pure representatives are fully able to and purely represent God. At times, God comes directly , or His representatives appear the Vedas tell us . The symptoms and characteristics of the pure representatives are clearly defined within all theologies.
Identifying a true representative is not easy , the pure can understand the pure , not the impure . So its hardly surprising difficulties arise , especially in the hearts of the untruthful and materially motivated persons.
Thus, the Christian who overly states Jesus as God without acknowledgement of his oneness and difference from Him appears to lack philisophical and theological understandings  . Similarities within the Jewish faith in different ways they who minimise the position of the  empowered and pure  persons in which the power of God decends and is exhibited. They want a direct relationship only and can’t understand how God appears anywhere and in anybody . So, to minimise God, concluding that man is not one with Him but totally separate is also theologically incorrect . Within the Vedas also at times some  theologians overly  state or under state the position of the living being and do not understand the truth of the  simultaneously one and differences between ourselves and God ..some say we are one with God and ultimately we are all God and some say we have always been , as God has always been  . The truth is expressed by the statement  within the Vedas particularly expressed by Sri Caitanya Mahaprabhu, where he says … we are inconceivably and simultaneously one and different than God .Srila Jiva Goswami puts it like this ….”God makes the impossible possible “
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