Although God can be understood as the Supreme Father, and although God sent His son to rescue the entangled beings , still,  God can not be limited in any way . He has unlimited sons or daughters who are expanded from Him . He has unlimited types of relationships , whatever we feel instinctively about all relationships has its origins within Divinity.
The Vedas are essential to understanding the spiritual varigatedness of Divinity, unless one understands the original varigatedness one will be forever attracted to the distant reflection of it , the flickering material world .
A reflection of a flower is an impression of it , but it can not ever hold the feelings , impressions, and fascination that the real flower holds ..

How to see reality…..

Caitanya Caratamrita.

jīvera ‘svarūpa’ haya — kṛṣṇera ‘nitya-dāsa’
kṛṣṇera ‘taṭasthā-śakti’ ‘bhedābheda-prakāśa’
sūryāṁśa-kiraṇa, yaiche agni-jvālā-caya
svābhāvika kṛṣṇera tina-prakāra ‘śakti’ haya

Translation
“It is the living entity’s constitutional position to be an eternal servant of Kṛṣṇa because he is the marginal energy of Kṛṣṇa and a manifestation simultaneously one with and different from the Lord, like a molecular particle of sunshine or fire. Kṛṣṇa has three varieties of energy…

We should not run away from who we really are , from the eternal comes the eternal. From the sun, uncountable photons appear.
In conditioned life, we run away from reality and are trying to avoid dealing with our underlying issues of dissatisfaction .We do this in different ways , for example, in lust , anger , greed, envy , and in all kinds of madness and illusions .
The recommendation of the Vedas is to offer ones natural occupational activities in a sacrifice to Divinity and follow ethical and moral responsibilities.
This can be easily done if one calls for the help of Divinity who resides in the heart and who can help us feel inspired giving as strength to continue on fighting the good fight against the alluring illusion of forgetfulness of reality.
The calling or chanting of God’s various authorised names and that He accepts are in theological text , within which the sciences of sound are being described . Sabdha Brahman is a pure sound of truth and sincerity.
If one vibrates sounds of anger and envy, one result comes , if we vibrate truth , compassion, and understanding, another result comes ..
The writings of the Gaudia Acaryas elaborate on these topics , Srila AC Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada recently arrived in the West , he has many books in English translated with commentaries.

Generally, when one sees Sri Guru for the first time , there is suspicion and doubt .By enquiring gradually, the doubts are removed one by one, and faith increases in both Sri Guru and the words spoken .
In some cases, immediately there is deep faith , no doubt , no suspicions.
This , the Vedas say , is because of previous cultivation of consciousness of spiritualservicess to Sri Gur,  who comes in many forms and represents God . In that way, they are non different from the Supreme Personality of Godhead
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