The origins of the compatibility, attraction , joy , and mixed emotions of male and female companies originates in Divinity. He is always accompanied by the original Goddess of Fortune or one of Her expansions. The Vedas indicate. God was one and became two , Radha Krishna,  then the original one. Krishna expanded and became many , the origins of all the living beings.

It is also  said in the Vedas that the conjugal loving affairs between Divinity and His Lovers are of two kinds , technically called Svakiya and Parakiya, one type of lover is , like a youthful secret love. the other more formal like a marriage,  there are aspects described in the tenth Canto of the Srimad Bhagavatam of these affairs and it’s fully elaborated upon by those various devotees,  in other writing,  they who have entered into service of the romantic servitors of Krishna ,  for instance in Rupa Goswami’s  writing he says  Divinity is analysed by experts in Parakiya Rasa , that He takes on 96 different mellows., or loving exchanges ,  in His personality when engaging in loving affairs .

An all-important aspect to consider is that one should never make the mistake of thinking , krishna has a mundane material body like a conditioned soul , neither His lovers.  They all have , ever new, ever enthusiastic and increasing attractions , which know no end.   an eternal youthful attraction , in spiritual forms,  not made of atoms or elements. A comparison  between top quality cut diamonds and cut glass can never be applied.  Looks similar, but quality and worth are incomparable.

Those who are naturally attracted to the fascinating experiences of romantic and romantic affairs should drop the cut glass and pick up diamonds