The key to spiritual life is to develop” ashrayaship” and give up  “vishiyaship .”
Love , in absolute terms , means to relish the super excellent qualities of Divinity and His associates , Divinity has the Supreme Goddess of fortune who  is the Supreme relisher of His superexcellent qualities , as  She experiences His qualities and relishes them  , her trancendental pleasure is experienced millions of times more than Krishna experiences,  thus He develops a greed to relish love , the way Radharani does , such is the power of love . …when She sees Divinity happy , She becomes happier when He sees Her happy He becomes happier, thus the ever increasing bliss of love and exchanges of consciousness is permanently taking place within a spiritual plane. Where Anuraga , ever new enthusiasm , is exhibited , well beyond, and outside of the perimeters of matter and its subtle conditioning.
To understand or have a glimpse of this trancendental realm, selfishness and envy have to be cleansed through association and instruction in a regulated life of dedication and devotion .
Anyone who achieves great things  in this life  works hard , spiritual dedication may be as Srila Sridhar Swami put it ” all risk no gain ”

Relishing unlimitedly